# Am I an Alcoholic? What You Need to Know About Alcoholism > Are you an alcoholic? Learn the signs and see if your drinking habits have become a problem. Find help for yourself or a loved one here. [Home](/) / [Blog](/blog/) / Alcohol Alcohol # Am I an Alcoholic? What You Need to Know About Alcoholism Are you an alcoholic? Learn the signs and see if your drinking habits have become a problem. Find help for yourself or a loved one here. Written byKristel Mae DavidClinical Editor Clinically reviewed by[Lucy Britton](/clinical-team/)Clinical Therapist Last checked for clinical accuracy on 1 July 2025. This article is general information and is not a substitute for advice about your own situation. No single test settles the question, but some honest ones help. Do you often drink more than you intended? Have you tried to cut down and found it difficult? Do you feel restless, anxious or irritable when you cannot drink? Has alcohol affected your work, studies or relationships? Do you drink to cope with stress or difficult feelings? Answering yes to any of these can suggest a developing problem worth discussing with a healthcare professional. ## Before you go further, a safety note If you are physically dependent on alcohol or on benzodiazepines such as diazepam or alprazolam, do not stop taking them suddenly. Sudden withdrawal from either can cause seizures and can be life threatening. A medically supervised withdrawal is the safe route, and your GP can arrange one. In an emergency call 999 in the UK, or 112 anywhere in Europe. For urgent advice that is not an emergency, NHS 111 is available in England around the clock. You've probably asked yourself a few times lately: Am I an alcoholic? Maybe you've been drinking more than usual, blacking out after nights out, or feeling uneasy when you can't drink, these could be early signs of alcohol dependency. Let's first learn more about harmful alcohol use, then we'll assess your drinking habits, and explore where to find the support you need. ## What is Alcohol Dependence? Alcohol dependence is characterised by changes in the brain's reward and stress systems, which can lead to symptoms of alcohol withdrawal when consumption of alcohol is reduced or stopped. These brain changes contribute to a strong urge to continue heavy alcohol use despite the negative impact it causes. The loss of control that comes with it may also indicate the presence of alcohol use disorder. Someone with alcohol use disorder may lose track of how much they're drinking and may struggle with a compulsion to drink. They may experience strong cravings and dangerous withdrawal symptoms like hallucinations or disorientation. It's important to recognise when drinking has become a problem so that treatment can be explored before the effects worsen. Most people notice the signs long before they act on them. A short conversation is usually the next step. ## Risks for Alcoholism and Alcohol Use Disorder Certain risk factors can increase a person's likelihood of developing alcohol use disorder. These may include biological and environmental influences, as well as established drinking patterns: - Excessive alcohol use, especially over long periods. - Binge drinking is defined as consuming five or more drinks in a single session. - Developing an alcohol tolerance, where more substance is needed to feel the same effects. - Genes and being surrounded by family members who normalise alcohol misuse. - Coexisting mental health conditions, such as anxiety or depression Recognising these risks can help prevent the progression of problematic drinking and support timely access to addiction treatment and support. ## Let's Evaluate Your Drinking Habits Understanding your own drinking patterns is a key step in recognising early signs and knowing when to seek support. By reflecting truthfully on your behaviour, you can begin to identify whether alcohol might be having a greater impact on your life than you realise. ### Self-Assessment Questionnaire If you're wondering whether your drinking is a problem, asking yourself the right questions can help: - Do you often drink more than you intended? - Have you tried to cut down but found it difficult? - Do you feel restless, anxious, or irritable when you can't drink? - Has alcohol affected your work, school, or relationships? - Do you use alcohol to cope with stress or negative feelings? These questions can help you analyse your relationship with alcohol. Even if you don't drink daily, answering 'yes' to any of them could suggest a developing issue. If your responses worry you, consider speaking with someone you trust or reaching out to a healthcare provider. ### Screening Tools Online self-assessment tools can also offer insights into how your drinking may be affecting your health. The Alcohol Use Disorders Identification Test (AUDIT) and quizzes from organisations like Alcohol Change provide helpful guidance and flag potential risks. Still, these tools only serve as guides and should not be used as a replacement for professional advice. ## Am I an Alcoholic? Warning Signs of Alcoholism ### Alcohol Withdrawal and Tolerance You may notice that you need to drink more alcohol to feel the same effects as before, which is a sign of developing tolerance. Symptoms such as sweating, tremors, headaches, or nausea, when not drinking, can indicate growing physical dependence. On an emotional level, you might feel more irritable or depressed, especially after drinking. Feelings of guilt or shame about your drinking are also common, even when stopping feels hard. You may also find it difficult to concentrate or notice memory lapses following heavy drinking episodes. ### Behavioural Red Flags Paying attention to changes in daily habits can help you or a loved one detect signs of problem drinking. They might start drinking during inappropriate times or find excuses to drink alcohol alone. Some people may begin hiding or lying about their alcohol use from friends or family. Missing important events, neglecting responsibilities, or drinking in risky situations, such as before driving, are serious red flags. If drinking starts to dictate your actions, take priority over everything else, or you're constantly thinking about your next drink, these are signs of more than just a habit. ### Impact on Relationships Alcohol can affect the way you interact with others. You may find yourself arguing more often with loved ones or being nagged about your unhealthy drinking habits. Some individuals may begin to withdraw from social circles, opting for isolation over spending time with family or friends. When promises to cut back are broken or commitments are repeatedly missed, relationships often suffer. Hiding alcohol use can lead to trust issues and emotional distance. Over time, this strain can leave you feeling detached or alone, even when others around you want to help. ### Do you think you or someone you love has a problem with alcohol? You do not have to be certain before you pick up the phone. One confidential call with a clinician will tell you whether your drinking is something to act on now. [Take the self-assessment](/self-assessment/) [+44 1202 653136](tel:+441202653136) ## Five Types of Alcoholism Research from the National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism (NIAAA) has identified five distinct subtypes of alcoholism, each with unique characteristics. Recognising these categories helps move past stereotypes and supports more personalised treatment. - Young Adult Subtype: These individuals typically begin drinking in their late teens or early twenties, have few co-occurring mental health issues, and rarely seek treatment. - Young Antisocial Subtype: Includes people in their mid-20s with early-onset alcohol problems and a high rate of co-occurring disorders like antisocial personality disorder and depression. - Functional Subtype: Consists of well-educated, middle-aged adults with stable jobs and families. Despite appearing in control, they may struggle privately and rarely seek help. - Intermediate Familial Subtype: Involves individuals with a strong family history of alcoholism and high rates of depression or bipolar disorder, yet low treatment-seeking behaviour. - Chronic Severe Subtype: These individuals often have a long history of drinking, numerous mental health issues, and are most likely to seek treatment. ## Difference Between Social Drinking and Alcohol Abuse Social drinking typically involves casual alcohol use in low-risk settings, like sharing a drink with friends or at a dinner party, with control over how much is consumed. Alcohol abuse, on the other hand, may begin when drinking becomes a way to cope with negative emotions or starts to interfere with work, relationships, or responsibilities. Recognising this shift early is key to prevention and early intervention. ## Treatment Options and Support Finding the right help can be nerve-wracking if you're unsure where to start, but you don't have to face this challenge alone. There are several options available, including inpatient and outpatient treatment, peer support groups, and loved ones who are willing to provide support. ### Starting a Conversation Opening up to someone about your drinking can make a meaningful difference. You don't need to share everything right away; starting with small, honest conversations can help build trust. Be prepared for a range of reactions, as some people may feel surprised, worried, or unsure of how to respond. Let them know how they can support you, whether it's just by listening or coming with you to appointments. ### Reaching Out for Professional Support If alcohol is starting to affect your health or relationships, or if you are struggling to stop drinking, it may be time to seek professional help. Support from healthcare providers can help you navigate problems associated with alcohol. A structured treatment programme at a rehab centre often includes medical detox, therapy, counselling, and holistic approaches, all tailored to support your recovery. ### Finding Free Local Resources There are many non-profit organisations and peer support groups available to help people addicted to alcohol, those facing mental health problems, and individuals living with an alcoholic loved one. You can also reach out to national helplines or local meet-ups to connect with others. ### Treating alcohol addiction takes more than willpower Three structured group sessions a day, individual therapy, and a seventeen module curriculum. Admission usually within days of the assessment. [See how admission works](/admissions/) [+44 1202 653136](tel:+441202653136) ## Get Help for Excessive Drinking Are you feeling worried about your drinking or unsure if you might be becoming dependent on alcohol? It's okay to feel this way, you're not alone. At Sierra Recovery, we offer compassionate, world-class addiction treatment and support to help you find hope and healing at your own pace. Get Help for Alcohol Addiction Last reviewed 2026-07-25. Next review 2027-07-25. ## Questions people actually ask How can one recognise the behavioural signs that may suggest a drinking problem? Behavioural signs of a drinking problem include intense cravings, hiding alcohol use, and neglecting responsibilities. You may also notice increased irritability, secretiveness, or defensiveness when asked about drinking. If alcohol starts to take priority over everything, it's a sign. What can be considered the early warning signs of alcohol dependence? Early signs of alcohol dependence include feeling the need to drink to relax, cope, or get through the day. You might start drinking more than planned or feel anxious and irritable when you can't drink. Tolerance and mild withdrawal symptoms, like shakiness or sweating, may also develop. Could you explain the stages of alcoholism and how it progresses? Alcoholism typically begins with casual drinking, which may gradually become more frequent and dangerous. As tolerance builds, individuals may start relying on alcohol to cope, leading to dependence. Over time, this dependence can progress into alcohol use disorder. What are the common physical symptoms that might indicate alcohol misuse? Shaking, sweating, and nausea when not drinking are warning signs of alcohol misuse. Blackouts, poor sleep, headaches, and frequent hangovers may also occur. Over time, you may notice changes in physical appearance, such as weight loss, a flushed face, or poor personal hygiene. How can someone assess the impact of alcohol on their relationships and daily life? If people around you express concern, take a moment to reflect on your actions. Missing work, avoiding family, neglecting responsibilities, and frequent arguments are clear signs. These patterns often indicate that alcohol is negatively affecting your life. What steps should be taken if someone suspects they have a dependency on alcohol? Open up to a trusted family member or friend for emotional support. Once you're ready, you may consult a healthcare professional or support service. Don't try to handle it alone. Early treatment and support improve safety and recovery success. What raises the risk of developing alcohol use disorder? Several things can increase the likelihood. Drinking heavily over long periods is one. So is binge drinking, described here as five or more drinks in a single session, and developing tolerance, where you need more alcohol to feel the same effects. Genes and being surrounded by family members who normalise alcohol misuse also play a part, as do coexisting mental health conditions such as anxiety or depression. What is the difference between social drinking and alcohol abuse? Social drinking usually means casual alcohol use in low-risk settings, such as a drink with friends or at a dinner party, with control over how much you consume. Alcohol abuse may begin when drinking becomes a way to cope with negative emotions, or when it starts to interfere with work, relationships or responsibilities. Recognising that shift early is what makes prevention and early intervention possible. Are online drinking self-assessments reliable? Tools such as the Alcohol Use Disorders Identification Test, known as AUDIT, and quizzes from organisations like Alcohol Change can offer useful insight into how your drinking may be affecting your health, and they flag potential risks. They are guides rather than diagnoses, and they should not replace professional advice. If the results worry you, take them to a healthcare provider and talk them through. Do people with drinking problems all look the same? No. Research has identified five distinct subtypes of alcoholism, which helps move past stereotypes. They include a young adult group, a young antisocial group with early-onset problems and high rates of co-occurring conditions, a functional group of well-educated middle-aged adults with stable jobs who may struggle privately, an intermediate familial group with a strong family history, and a chronic severe group with a long drinking history. How do I start a conversation about my drinking? You do not need to share everything at once. Small, honest conversations build trust, and opening up to one person you trust can make a real difference. Be prepared for a range of reactions, since people may feel surprised, worried or unsure how to respond. Tell them what would actually help, whether that is simply listening or coming with you to appointments. + ## Talk to a clinician today You will speak to our admissions team, English-speaking clinicians who know the programme and the people in it. Callback within 24 hours. Step 1 of 3 Confidential, and no obligation Registered health centre. 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